According to Fowler's theory, a person think who he or she is as an individual in terms of individuative-reflective faith. (Fowler & Dell, 2004) It seems that this stage is a process to find out myself with out any connection with outside. For example, while I have served Korean church, I have been called as a pastor. Back then, "a pastor" was my identity. People used to call me pastor Park. But now, I serve New Zealand church, and our church members usually call person's name rather than their titles. So, our church members call my name, not my title, a youth pastor. One thing I realized is that being called by my name reminds me who I really am. When I was called by my title, it was hard to think who I am because the title was already telling me about that. I guess that I was limited in the title, so it have prevented me to find out who I really am. But when I am called by my name, which reveals myself who have been hidden by the title.
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Folwler, J. W. & Dell, M. L. (2004). Stages of Faith and Identity: Birth to Teens. Child and Adolescent Psychiatric Clinics of North America. vol. 13, iss. 1, p. 17-33.