What I learned for this experience, that I should be more careful with my choices. Especially, when we talk about other people. People are completely different with their feelings, thoughts and understanding the language with either written or oral. As a researcher, I have to understand the others, spend time with them; recognize them well, so you can write about them the exact way that they want to be written. I have been asked about how I want to be described in a research or a paper, I supposed it a great question to start or end with; how do you want to be described? How do you want me to write about you? These questions must be in mind any researcher before he starts writing about others. No one want to be misunderstood, these are the major idea that I got from represent selves and others. The researchers working in this field are required to fully understand the perspective that the author is taking in-order to provide an accurate representation of the same. Language, therefore, plays the role of a constitutive force responsible for creating reality. Noteworthy, most writers today have emphasized the use of scientific conventions in writing and have managed to identify the lack of style in such tales as a rhetorical device. I used to write in Arabic, and for me always I want myself to appear in my written words but without leaning my thoughts into other people thoughts. Researchers need being away from the research sample thoughts but not away from his/her idea. We search for a reason, this way I believe the writer has the right to be present in his own words. But keep in mind how other people can read and understand these words. Words always have two sides of the story and people understanding might not be the way the you understand it or you want them to understand.