CHAPTER 10 The Social World of Adolescence The search for identity
is considered the
primary developmental task of the adolescent period. In this chapter, you will find that the outcome
of an adolescent’s search is very much affected by the so
cial world. Peers play a critical role, and so
do parents, schools, and neighborhoods. All are in turn influenced by the cultural and historical
context in which the adolescent’s identity is formed. Counselors, therapists, teachers, and other
helping profe
ssionals who support adolescents through their explorations and struggles must
consider the impact of these multiple, interdependent factors. As we have seen repeatedly, no single
factor or influence fully explains any developmental outcome. In this chapte
r, we present a model of
the mechanism for social identity development and explore research on the influence of peers,
parents, schools, leisure, work, and culture on that process. We conclude with a discussion of
implications for professionals who work wi
th adolescents. Let’s begin with an example: As a balmy
October turned into a frigid November, 12
-
year
-
old Tamara’s mother repeatedly suggested to her
daughter that they go shopping to replace Tamara’s outgrown winter jacket. Tamara refused. She
said she w
asn’t sure what sort of jacket she wanted, admitting that it depended on what the other
girls in her class would be wearing. The popular girls had not yet worn jackets to school, despite the
cold. They, too, were waiting and watching! Finally, in mid
-
Decem
ber, one popular girl in the
seventh
-
grade class capitulated to her mother’s demands and made a jacket choice. Tamara and
her classmates at last knew what to wear. Parents and teachers are often perplexed, even
dismayed, by the importance of peers to the a
dolescent. Why would an otherwise sensible young
person become so dependent upon the actions and choices of others, and what role do parents and
other concerned adults play in an adolescent’s life when peers become so important? Dependence
upon peers is a
normal and important developmental process for the young adolescent. As you will
see, the search for identity (see Chapter 9) that characterizes the adolescent period takes place
largely within the world of peers. The adolescent period roughly begins at pu
berty, although in
today’s world many of the processes discussed in this chapter are beginning to affect the lives of
children even before the onset of puberty. FRAMEWORKLESSNESS AND AUTONOMY: A MODEL
OF ADOLESCENT SOCIAL
IDENTITY Theorists have long argue
d that one’s identity develops
within the context of interpersonal interactions (Cooley, 1902; Mead, 1934; see also Chapter 7).
Erikson (1968) suggested that peers are particularly important in the construction of identity at
adolescence, and Seltzer (1982
) expanded upon Erikson’s ideas, specifying how and why the peer
group plays such a central role. To understand fully the function of peers, let’s look again at what
happens when a child enters adolescence. The body changes in appearance, adult sexual need
s
emerge, hormonal shifts may heighten irritability, the capacity to reflect on the future and on the self
expands bringing its own brand of egocentrism, and demands for autonomy increase. All of these
changes are supported by dramatic alterations in the a
dolescent brain. These profound shifts can
produce a state of instability and anxiety unique to adolescence, which Seltzer calls
frameworklessness. Think about your own experiences as a young adolescent. Can you relate to the
sense of frameworklessness? Th
e adolescent is at sea. Previous boundaries and guideposts are no
longer functional. In earlier developmental periods, expansion and growth exist within a context of
familiar motion and exercise. The adolescent condition is different, however. The adolesce
nt is
possessed of new physical and intellectual capabilities that are both mystical and mystifying. . . . The
allure of the adult world calls, and is strong, even as the safety of childhood is close and still
beckons. Yet neither fits; the one is outgrown
, the other not yet encompassable. (Seltzer, 1982, p.
59) The adolescent’s passage to adulthood is in some ways parallel to the infant’s passage to
childhood status. To exercise their developing skills and to explore the beckoning world, infants must
give
up the security of the caregiver’s continual presence and care. Most attachment theorists
believe that toddlers manage the stress of this separation by referring to their working model of the
other, a kind of mental representation of the caregiver, which p
rovides feelings of security and
makes independent exploration possible. For adolescents, the task of establishing adult
CHAPTER 10 The Social World of Adolescence The search for identity is considered the
primary developmental task of the adolescent period. In this chapter, you will find that the outcome
of an adolescent’s search is very much affected by the social world. Peers play a critical role, and so
do parents, schools, and neighborhoods. All are in turn influenced by the cultural and historical
context in which the adolescent’s identity is formed. Counselors, therapists, teachers, and other
helping professionals who support adolescents through their explorations and struggles must
consider the impact of these multiple, interdependent factors. As we have seen repeatedly, no single
factor or influence fully explains any developmental outcome. In this chapter, we present a model of
the mechanism for social identity development and explore research on the influence of peers,
parents, schools, leisure, work, and culture on that process. We conclude with a discussion of
implications for professionals who work with adolescents. Let’s begin with an example: As a balmy
October turned into a frigid November, 12-year-old Tamara’s mother repeatedly suggested to her
daughter that they go shopping to replace Tamara’s outgrown winter jacket. Tamara refused. She
said she wasn’t sure what sort of jacket she wanted, admitting that it depended on what the other
girls in her class would be wearing. The popular girls had not yet worn jackets to school, despite the
cold. They, too, were waiting and watching! Finally, in mid-December, one popular girl in the
seventh-grade class capitulated to her mother’s demands and made a jacket choice. Tamara and
her classmates at last knew what to wear. Parents and teachers are often perplexed, even
dismayed, by the importance of peers to the adolescent. Why would an otherwise sensible young
person become so dependent upon the actions and choices of others, and what role do parents and
other concerned adults play in an adolescent’s life when peers become so important? Dependence
upon peers is a normal and important developmental process for the young adolescent. As you will
see, the search for identity (see Chapter 9) that characterizes the adolescent period takes place
largely within the world of peers. The adolescent period roughly begins at puberty, although in
today’s world many of the processes discussed in this chapter are beginning to affect the lives of
children even before the onset of puberty. FRAMEWORKLESSNESS AND AUTONOMY: A MODEL
OF ADOLESCENT SOCIAL IDENTITY Theorists have long argued that one’s identity develops
within the context of interpersonal interactions (Cooley, 1902; Mead, 1934; see also Chapter 7).
Erikson (1968) suggested that peers are particularly important in the construction of identity at
adolescence, and Seltzer (1982) expanded upon Erikson’s ideas, specifying how and why the peer
group plays such a central role. To understand fully the function of peers, let’s look again at what
happens when a child enters adolescence. The body changes in appearance, adult sexual needs
emerge, hormonal shifts may heighten irritability, the capacity to reflect on the future and on the self
expands bringing its own brand of egocentrism, and demands for autonomy increase. All of these
changes are supported by dramatic alterations in the adolescent brain. These profound shifts can
produce a state of instability and anxiety unique to adolescence, which Seltzer calls
frameworklessness. Think about your own experiences as a young adolescent. Can you relate to the
sense of frameworklessness? The adolescent is at sea. Previous boundaries and guideposts are no
longer functional. In earlier developmental periods, expansion and growth exist within a context of
familiar motion and exercise. The adolescent condition is different, however. The adolescent is
possessed of new physical and intellectual capabilities that are both mystical and mystifying. . . . The
allure of the adult world calls, and is strong, even as the safety of childhood is close and still
beckons. Yet neither fits; the one is outgrown, the other not yet encompassable. (Seltzer, 1982, p.
59) The adolescent’s passage to adulthood is in some ways parallel to the infant’s passage to
childhood status. To exercise their developing skills and to explore the beckoning world, infants must
give up the security of the caregiver’s continual presence and care. Most attachment theorists
believe that toddlers manage the stress of this separation by referring to their working model of the
other, a kind of mental representation of the caregiver, which provides feelings of security and
makes independent exploration possible. For adolescents, the task of establishing adult