What is forgiveness?
For me, forgiveness is positive attitude towards people or things that hurt you before. It is a voluntary process- replace negative emotion like resentment and revenge as down past the tangle. Just like if others have harmed you, you can use your integrity, honesty to treat this matter.
What is not forgiveness?
Forgiveness is not about help repair bad relationship or reconciling, but a better way releases the anger and pressure. I think it is important to learn letting go the bad things happened to you; or it will become a “shadow” which depress you incessantly, it can be a waste of life. Forgiveness is not for pleasing others but relieve your pain and make you a better man. Furthermore, forgiveness can be a best way to fight back and the most powerful rebuttal to those who hate you.
Unforgiveable acts
In my opinion, unforgiveable act is when someone’s disrespect behavior touches your bottomline or law. Because the society needs rules to keep away from criminals; you need to have own rule as well to keep away from offenders. By the way, keeping your own principle and baseline can avoid a lot possibility of getting hurt.